why do people say “don’t be a pussy” when talking about weakness more like “don’t be a man’s ego” because you know there isn’t nothing more fragile than that
uh
because “pussy” is the shortened form of the word “pusillanimous”, which means “timid, cowardly”
and not the slang word for the female genital region?
Talk to your partner about the relationships they witnessed as a child to see where their ideas of love come from
I never realized how distorted my ideas of love were until I started learning what healthy love was supposed to look like.
Find someone who understands this & is willing to work with you to improve your perception and understanding of healthy relationships of all kinds.
It’s so important to have someone who is willing to be a teammate and help remove toxicity in your life & be patient with you as they know it won’t come quick or easy 💕
i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions. all people need rest in general! it’s okay!! it doesn’t mean they don’t love me!! it’s not a judgement or punishment!! they deserve to take their rest, and they deserve for me to treat their needs with respect!
"I’m all that I can be, and I must admit i’m appalled when you envy, because you can do it too, you can do it too, i’m just the girl that they threw it to. So i’m gonna bounce back, and i’ma ball out, and everytime you see me, i’ma go all out, and ima win til the ending, don’t be mad when you see me transcending." - Nicki Minaj